Today we find ourselves in a new parenting situation. Schools, restaurants
and even playgrounds have been closed in an effort to slow the spread of
COVID-19. Unfortunately, that means that children’s birthday parties have
to be cancelled or at least postponed to a vague future date.
If your child’s birthday falls during this time of social distancing, why
not plan a virtual birthday party? Not sure how to pull it off? Check out
these ideas below.
Invitations
There are several themed digital invitations available on Green Envelope,
Punchbowl or Smilebox. Pick one you like and fill in the details.
Venue
Set up a virtual meeting room in an app like Zoom. This free app is
available to host up to 100 participants for a 40-minute meeting. If that
is too short, you can sign up for one month of Pro service ($14.99) for a
24-hour meeting time. You will need to have everyone’s email address and
you can add the link to the party in your invitations.
Play Games Together
There are tons of online games you can play as a group. As the host, you
can share your screen with the kids (the birthday child will need his/her
own screen) to play a PowerPoint game show like Family Feud. You can create
it yourself to fit your theme or find a downloadable version online. Break
the group up into teams and play as you normally would.
Another option for games is to use the white board on Zoom to write a
cryptogram and let kids decode and share their guesses with the group.
Incorporate your theme into your messages. You can use movie quotes or
facts about the characters. There are cryptogram generators online like
Quipqiup or Puzzlemaker to help you convert your messages to a cryptogram.
Homebound scavenger hunts are also fun. Make a list of items that you think
everyone has in his or her house. Put a picture or the word up on the white
board. For example – a fork. The players then have to leave the screen, go
get the item and show it to the group. You can give them a time limit for
each item and keep track of the person who has the most first findings for
a prize. (See the Sidebar for a list of Homebound Scavenger Hunt items.)
You can set up a Kahoot trivia game and let everyone play against each
other to answer questions. Again, this is a perfect time to incorporate
some questions that connect to your theme. For example, if you have a
superhero party, you might ask, “What makes Superman weak?” When you create
the game, you will be given a Game Pin# that you can share with the group
during the party which will bring them to your game.
Crafts
Yes, you can even do a craft at your virtual birthday party. If you chose a
craft that needs supplies, you might need to drop them off to the guests
ahead of time. You can show the kids how the craft works on your Zoom
screen. For a craft the guests can do with simple supplies, you might teach
the players to make origami with dollar bills, a sword out of newspaper or
a castle out of playing cards.
Menu
Virtual food has not been invented, unfortunately, so we need to be
flexible. My suggestion is to make brown bag lunches and desserts for the
attendants and drop them off on their front porch before the party. For
everyone’s safety, consider prepackaged items like Lunchables, chips and an
apple. Near the end of the party, you can set up a 15-minute virtual free
time for the kids to eat and talk together.
Cake
Everyone still wants to blow out their candles on their birthday, so be
sure to include a dessert with the brown bag lunches. When it is time to
sing Happy Birthday, set your child’s dessert up in front of the camera,
light the candles and start singing. Everyone can watch your child blow out
his or her candles and clap as they would at any other birthday party.
Gifts
Your child and the guests might ask, “What about gifts for the birthday
child?” That, like every other birthday party, is up to you. You might
decide to do a donation to a charity, like a virtual food drive. Or as most
kids prefer a gift of their own, their guests can drop off a gift on the
front porch or send an e-card.
Prizes and Goody Bags
Gift cards are a great way to give virtual goody bags. You can offer online
gift cards to places like Amazon, Steam, Microsoft, Walmart or a fast food
restaurant that has a drive-thru. For the winners of your games, you can
send them a coupon code to Redbox so they can enjoy a movie at home with
their families.
Homebound Scavenger Hunt
Here are 20 items you can use for your Homebound Scavenger Hunt. Players
find the items in their house and race back to the screen to show what they
found.
- Fork
- TV Remote
- Coffee Cup
- Toilet Paper Roll
- Canned food item
- Kitchen towel
- Pen
- Ruler
- Backpack
- Hairbrush
- Toothbrush
- Framed picture
- Serving Spoon
- Playing cards
- Book
- Hat of any kind
- Phone charger
- Tissue box
- Battery
- Rubber Band
