Summer camp sounds fun, but how do you handle siblings? Should they go to the same camp or have independent experiences?
While some siblings thrive in the same camp setting, others may benefit from separate experiences. Deciding on the best option requires careful consideration of your children’s unique needs, dynamics and interests.
Here are key factors parents should consider when deciding whether one camp or two is the best choice for their family.
1. Do Your Kids Like the Same Things?
Children are unique, with their own hobbies, skills and preferences. Some camps
specialize in specific activities, such as sports, performing arts or science, while others offer a broad range of options.
If your children have shared interests, the same camp might be a perfect fit. They can enjoy activities together and strengthen their bond. However, if one child prefers rock climbing and another loves theater, it might be better to consider separate camps where their individual passions can flourish.
Involve your children in the decision-making process. Letting them voice their preferences will help ensure they are excited about their camp experience.
2. What Are Their Ages and Developmental Stages?
The age gap between siblings can play a significant role in determining if they should attend the same camp. Camps typically group children by age to tailor activities to their developmental needs.
For siblings close in age, attending the same camp might provide comfort and a sense of camaraderie. If there’s a wide age gap, one child may feel left out or overshadowed, especially if the camp’s programming is skewed toward older or younger age groups.
Check whether the camp offers programs for different age brackets so siblings can share the environment while participating in age-appropriate activities.
3. How is Their Relationship?
Sibling relationships vary greatly. Some siblings are inseparable, while others thrive with a bit of space. Evaluate how your children interact with each other in everyday settings.
If they have a supportive and cooperative relationship, the same camp can enhance their bond. On the other hand, if they are highly competitive or frequently argue, separate camps might provide a healthy break, allowing them to grow individually without the influence of sibling dynamics.
Even if they get along well, establish boundaries ahead of time, such as encouraging them to participate in separate activities or form their own friendships so they each have positive experiences.
4. How Independent Are They?
Summer camp is an excellent opportunity for children to develop independence. Consider whether one sibling might lean too heavily on the other if they attend the same camp.
For some kids, having their sibling around provides a sense of security. For others, it may hinder their ability to step outside their comfort zone and fully engage in the camp experience.
Talk to camp staff about how they can encourage independence while fostering positive sibling interactions. Many camps are experienced in navigating sibling dynamics.
5. What Are the Practical Considerations?
While your children’s needs should take priority, practical factors like logistics, cost and scheduling can also influence your decision. Sending siblings to the same camp may offer family discounts and simplifies transportation and coordination. However, separate camps may allow each child to access programs more tailored to their interests.
If you’re considering separate camps, look for sessions that overlap or stagger them to ensure your family still has summer downtime together.
Making the Final Decision
Choosing between one camp or two is a decision that depends on your family’s unique situation. By considering your children’s interests, dynamics and developmental needs – and balancing them with practical logistics – you can make the choice that best supports their growth and enjoyment.
Rebecca Hastings is a former teacher who is passionate about authenticity, faith and family. Her books are available on Amazon, and she has been featured on sites such as The Washington Post and Parents. In real life, she can often be found typing words, driving her kids places or wherever there is chocolate. Connect with her at RebeccaHastings.net and on Instagram.
Liam McCrickard holds a B.A. in creative and professional writing from Goucher College. He is former assistant editor at Washington Parent. He works as a freelance designer, writer and editor of tabletop role-playing games.
Rebecca Hastings is a former teacher who is passionate about authenticity, faith and family. Her books are available on Amazon, and she has been featured on sites such as The Washington Post and Parents. In real life, she can often be found typing words, driving her kids places or wherever there is chocolate.
